Carry one another’s burdens; in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
GALATIANS 6:2
During hard times in life, we need all the love and support we can get – both from God and others. In fact, God often manifests His presence through others! Being “God’s heart and hands” is the very purpose of our Care Ministry. We have many ways to minister to Church of the Servant’s families:
We also provide care and support during joyous times when a new baby is born, such as gift basket!
- Our Care Chaplains
- Various support groups
- Hospital and home visits
- Encouraging care notes
- Intercessory prayer
We also provide care and support during joyous times when a new baby is born, such as gift basket!
Many things cause humans to grieve. Of course, losing someone by death is seemingly the most difficult. We grieve because we have loved, and we love. At Church of the Servant, we want to offer a safe place for those who need support through the grieving process, a place to talk, listen, and support one another.
We will be offering a support group and using the curriculum GriefShare. A GriefShare support group is a safe, welcoming place where people understand the difficult emotions of grief. Through this 13-week group, you’ll discover what to expect in the days ahead and what’s “normal” in grief. Since there are no neat, orderly stages of grief, you’ll learn helpful ways of coping with grief, in all its unpredictability—and gain solid support each step of the way.
“Each weekly GriefShare group begins with a 30-minute video featuring respected experts on grief-related topics and helpful stories from people who have experienced loss. Their insights will help you manage your emotions, gain clarity, and find answers to your questions as you walk through the grief process.”
Mary Garrett, Marge Carmichael, and Rev. Sheri Lashley will lead and facilitate this 13-week course. We will meet on Thursdays at 1:30 PM starting on January 23rd in the office library. If you know someone interested, please contact Vicki Roberds at vroberds@churchoftheservant.com or (405) 728-4738.
We will be offering a support group and using the curriculum GriefShare. A GriefShare support group is a safe, welcoming place where people understand the difficult emotions of grief. Through this 13-week group, you’ll discover what to expect in the days ahead and what’s “normal” in grief. Since there are no neat, orderly stages of grief, you’ll learn helpful ways of coping with grief, in all its unpredictability—and gain solid support each step of the way.
“Each weekly GriefShare group begins with a 30-minute video featuring respected experts on grief-related topics and helpful stories from people who have experienced loss. Their insights will help you manage your emotions, gain clarity, and find answers to your questions as you walk through the grief process.”
Mary Garrett, Marge Carmichael, and Rev. Sheri Lashley will lead and facilitate this 13-week course. We will meet on Thursdays at 1:30 PM starting on January 23rd in the office library. If you know someone interested, please contact Vicki Roberds at vroberds@churchoftheservant.com or (405) 728-4738.
grief support group
Have you experienced the loss of a loved one? If so, perhaps you would benefit from our Grief Support Group at Church of the Servant. Whether you have recently experienced the death of a loved one, or if you have been on a grief journey for a long time, we hope you’ll consider joining the group. Each session includes a video and plenty of time for discussion and sharing. Each participant will receive a complimentary workbook. Registration never closes, so you can join us anytime during the course. To register for the next course, please contact Vicki Roberds at
405-728-4738 or vroberds@churchoftheservant.com.
405-728-4738 or vroberds@churchoftheservant.com.
Alzheimer’s & Dementia Caregivers Support Group
This group is designed to give Christian support and encouragement to people who have loved ones with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia. Here’s how it works: just arrange for any care that might be necessary for your loved one during the time of our meeting (we aren’t able to offer such care here at Church of the Servant), then join us for a time of learning, sharing, and caring for one another in a Christian environment. If you’re interested in this group, please contact Vicki Roberds at
405-728-4738 or vroberds@churchoftheservant.com.
405-728-4738 or vroberds@churchoftheservant.com.
Ostomy Support Group
An ostomy is an artificial opening in an organ of the body, created during an operation such as a colostomy, ileostomy, or gastrostomy; a stoma. Are you living with an ostomy? Do you think you are alone and have no one to talk to about questions that arise regarding your ostomy? Come to our Ostomy Support Group. We have an Ostomy Nurse at every meeting to answer your questions and concerns. In addition, you will meet other ostomates who will share their stories and helpful ideas.If you’re interested in this group, please contact Vicki Roberds at
405-728-4738 or vroberds@churchoftheservant.com.
405-728-4738 or vroberds@churchoftheservant.com.
Planning a Funeral or Memorial Service
When a loved one dies, those grieving often need assistance in planning a funeral or memorial service. Care Ministries at Church of the Servant can provide that assistance in a comforting and efficient way.
First, decide one person who will be the family contact to help coordinate the service. That person should then contact Vicki Roberds, Coordinator of Care Ministries. Her direct phone line is 405-728-4738. She is available from 8:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., Monday through Friday. After hours or on weekends, please call 405-721-4141. You will be directed to an emergency line to contact a pastor on call, who can help you reach Vicki.
Vicki will kindly and efficiently guide you through the process of planning the service, including: choosing a date, contacting the pastor of your choice, those who can help you with music, and any other matters concerning the service. We can also provide you with the names of
First, decide one person who will be the family contact to help coordinate the service. That person should then contact Vicki Roberds, Coordinator of Care Ministries. Her direct phone line is 405-728-4738. She is available from 8:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., Monday through Friday. After hours or on weekends, please call 405-721-4141. You will be directed to an emergency line to contact a pastor on call, who can help you reach Vicki.
Vicki will kindly and efficiently guide you through the process of planning the service, including: choosing a date, contacting the pastor of your choice, those who can help you with music, and any other matters concerning the service. We can also provide you with the names of
some very fine funeral homes, if you need that information. The funeral home you choose will also help you with other aspects of the service.
After the service is over, you may feel the need for ongoing support as you continue to grieve the loss of your loved one. Church of the Servant has a Grief Support Group that can accompany you during this healing process. It can offer community, understanding, support, and encouragement; and will extend open and loving arms of welcome to you. Just know that we are here to help make this journey more bearable, and a day of comfort and peacefulness. We want you and your loved ones to experience the love of Christ in action, so please let us know how we can serve you.
Click HERE to download a PDF form that includes the above instructions to give to the person you’ve chosen as your contact.
After the service is over, you may feel the need for ongoing support as you continue to grieve the loss of your loved one. Church of the Servant has a Grief Support Group that can accompany you during this healing process. It can offer community, understanding, support, and encouragement; and will extend open and loving arms of welcome to you. Just know that we are here to help make this journey more bearable, and a day of comfort and peacefulness. We want you and your loved ones to experience the love of Christ in action, so please let us know how we can serve you.
Click HERE to download a PDF form that includes the above instructions to give to the person you’ve chosen as your contact.
funeral & memorial services
When a member of our church experiences the loss of a loved one, frequently our church is chosen as the place for the service to celebrate the life of that loved one. This page will be updated with information on these services if they are to take place at Servant. Listings will remain available for a few weeks following the event.
- A Memorial Service for John Ralph (J.R.) Wolf will be held in the Chapel of the Cross on Thursday, February 6, 2025, at 2:00 p.m. Rev. Sheri Lashley will be officiating. A reception will follow.
- A Memorial Service for John Farr will be held in the Chapel of the Cross on Monday, February 10, 2025, at 2:00 p.m. Rev. Kyle Anderson will be officiating. A reception will follow.
- A Memorial Service for Delbert Simmons will be held in the Chapel of the Cross on Thursday, March 6, 2025, at 2:00 p.m. Rev. Sheri Lashley will be officiating. A reception will follow.
- A Memorial Service for Sharon Knight will be held in the Celebration Center on Monday, March 24, 2025 at 2:00 p.m. Rev. Kyle Anderson and Rev. Dan Pulver will be officiating. A reception will follow.
- A Memorial Service for Opal Warren will be held in the Chapel of the Cross on Wednesday, May 28, 2025, at 11:00 a.m. Rev. Sheri Lashley will be officiating. A reception will follow.