Carry one another’s burdens; in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.
GALATIANS 6:2
During hard times in life, we need all the love and support we can get – both from God and others. In fact, God often manifests His presence through others! Being “God’s heart and hands” is the very purpose of our Care Ministry. We have many ways to minister to Church of the Servant’s families:
We also provide care and support during joyous times when a new baby is born, such as gift basket!
- Our Care Chaplains
- Various support groups
- Hospital and home visits
- Encouraging care notes
- Intercessory prayer
We also provide care and support during joyous times when a new baby is born, such as gift basket!
Many things cause humans to grieve. Of course, losing someone by death is seemingly the most difficult. We grieve because we have loved, and we love. At Church of the Servant, we want to offer a safe place for those who need support through the grieving process, a place to talk, listen, and support one another.
We will be offering a support group and using the curriculum GriefShare. A GriefShare support group is a safe, welcoming place where people understand the difficult emotions of grief. Through this 13-week group, you’ll discover what to expect in the days ahead and what’s “normal” in grief. Since there are no neat, orderly stages of grief, you’ll learn helpful ways of coping with grief, in all its unpredictability—and gain solid support each step of the way.
“Each weekly GriefShare group begins with a 30-minute video featuring respected experts on grief-related topics and helpful stories from people who have experienced loss. Their insights will help you manage your emotions, gain clarity, and find answers to your questions as you walk through the grief process.”
Mary Garrett and Marge Carmichael will lead and facilitate this 13-week course. Our Grief Share Support Group will begin on Thursday, September 10, 2026. The course will meet each week and continue through Thursday, November 19, 2026. We'll meet each Thursday afternoon (1:30-3:00 PM) in the Library at Church of the Servant. If you know someone interested, please contact Vicki Roberds at vroberds@churchoftheservant.com or (405) 728-4738.
We will be offering a support group and using the curriculum GriefShare. A GriefShare support group is a safe, welcoming place where people understand the difficult emotions of grief. Through this 13-week group, you’ll discover what to expect in the days ahead and what’s “normal” in grief. Since there are no neat, orderly stages of grief, you’ll learn helpful ways of coping with grief, in all its unpredictability—and gain solid support each step of the way.
“Each weekly GriefShare group begins with a 30-minute video featuring respected experts on grief-related topics and helpful stories from people who have experienced loss. Their insights will help you manage your emotions, gain clarity, and find answers to your questions as you walk through the grief process.”
Mary Garrett and Marge Carmichael will lead and facilitate this 13-week course. Our Grief Share Support Group will begin on Thursday, September 10, 2026. The course will meet each week and continue through Thursday, November 19, 2026. We'll meet each Thursday afternoon (1:30-3:00 PM) in the Library at Church of the Servant. If you know someone interested, please contact Vicki Roberds at vroberds@churchoftheservant.com or (405) 728-4738.
funeral & memorial services
When a member of our church experiences the loss of a loved one, frequently our church is chosen as the place for the service to celebrate the life of that loved one. This page will be updated with information on these services if they are to take place at Servant. Listings will remain available for a few weeks following the event.
- A Memorial Service for Cathy Voorhies will be held in the Chapel of the Cross on Wednesday, August 19, 2026, at 1:00 p.m. Rev. Nathan Oney will officiate. Reception to follow.
- A Memorial Service for Vicki Trent will be held in the Chapel of the Cross on Tuesday, September 15, 2026, at 2:00 p.m. Rev. Kyle Anderson will officiate. Reception to follow.
Planning a Funeral or Memorial Service
When a loved one dies, those grieving often need assistance in planning a funeral or memorial service. Care Ministries at Church of the Servant can provide that assistance in a comforting and efficient way.
First, decide one person who will be the family contact to help coordinate the service. That person should then contact Vicki Roberds, Coordinator of Care Ministries. Her direct phone line is 405-728-4738. She is available from 8:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., Monday through Friday. After hours or on weekends, please call 405-721-4141. You will be directed to an emergency line to contact a pastor on call, who can help you reach Vicki.
Vicki will kindly and efficiently guide you through the process of planning the service, including: choosing a date, contacting the pastor of your choice, those who can help you with music, and any other matters concerning the service. We can also provide you with the names of
First, decide one person who will be the family contact to help coordinate the service. That person should then contact Vicki Roberds, Coordinator of Care Ministries. Her direct phone line is 405-728-4738. She is available from 8:00 a.m. until 5:00 p.m., Monday through Friday. After hours or on weekends, please call 405-721-4141. You will be directed to an emergency line to contact a pastor on call, who can help you reach Vicki.
Vicki will kindly and efficiently guide you through the process of planning the service, including: choosing a date, contacting the pastor of your choice, those who can help you with music, and any other matters concerning the service. We can also provide you with the names of
some very fine funeral homes, if you need that information. The funeral home you choose will also help you with other aspects of the service.
After the service is over, you may feel the need for ongoing support as you continue to grieve the loss of your loved one. Church of the Servant has a Grief Support Group that can accompany you during this healing process. It can offer community, understanding, support, and encouragement; and will extend open and loving arms of welcome to you. Just know that we are here to help make this journey more bearable, and a day of comfort and peacefulness. We want you and your loved ones to experience the love of Christ in action, so please let us know how we can serve you.
Click HERE to download a PDF form that includes the above instructions to give to the person you’ve chosen as your contact.
After the service is over, you may feel the need for ongoing support as you continue to grieve the loss of your loved one. Church of the Servant has a Grief Support Group that can accompany you during this healing process. It can offer community, understanding, support, and encouragement; and will extend open and loving arms of welcome to you. Just know that we are here to help make this journey more bearable, and a day of comfort and peacefulness. We want you and your loved ones to experience the love of Christ in action, so please let us know how we can serve you.
Click HERE to download a PDF form that includes the above instructions to give to the person you’ve chosen as your contact.